Chat With Elaina St James
Known as "That Mom", Adult Content Creator,, Author, and Merchandise Designer, Elaina St. James has hosted Chat with Elaina St James podcast since 2023. After restarting her professional life at 54, Elaina brings her unique perspective on pop culture, social media, travel and the adult industry. Guests from social media and adult entertainment will share their stories and behind the scenes insight. You can expect to laugh, learn and be inspired because if it's not fun, you're doing it wrong!
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Chat With Elaina St James
Episode 13: Catfishers, Scammers, Stalkers, Oh My!
Elaina St. James discusses her experiences with catfishers, scammers, and stalkers in the adult entertainment industry. She shares her background and the precautions she takes to protect herself and her family. Elaina highlights the prevalence of stalkers and the challenges faced by women in dealing with unwanted attention. She then delves into the unexpected issue of catfishers and scammers impersonating her and other creators, stealing their content, and attempting to deceive fans. Elaina emphasizes the importance of verifying the authenticity of creators and warns against engaging with imposter accounts. She also discusses the bias against adult entertainers on social media platforms like TikTok and Facebook. In this conversation, Elaina St James discusses the prevalence of scammers and fake accounts on social media platforms, particularly Facebook and TikTok. She highlights the lack of protection provided by social media companies and the challenges content creators face in dealing with these issues. Elaina also shares her experiences with unauthorized use of her content and the creation of misleading ads using her image. She expresses frustration with the media's lack of attention to these problems and emphasizes the importance of empathy for celebrities who face similar challenges. Finally, she warns about the potential misuse of AI technology to create fake content and offers advice for fans and content creators to protect themselves.
Takeaways
Stalkers and unwanted attention are common challenges faced by women, regardless of their profession.
Catfishers and scammers impersonate creators, steal their content, and deceive fans for financial gain.
It is crucial to verify the authenticity of creators and avoid engaging with imposter accounts.
Social media platforms often benefit from the presence of scammers and may not take adequate action to address the issue. Scammers and fake accounts are rampant on social media platforms, such as Facebook and TikTok.
Social media companies often fail to provide adequate protection against scammers and fake accounts, leaving content creators and their followers vulnerable.
Unauthorized use of content and creation of misleading ads using content creators' images is a significant issue.
The roller coaster of fame can have both positive and negative effects on content creators, including the challenges of dealing with success and the pitfalls of being in the public eye.
AI technology poses a potential threat as it could be used to create fake content and impersonate content creators.
Fans and content creators should be cautious and verify information on official and verified platforms to protect themselves from scams and catfishing.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Background
00:30 Three Years in the Industry
00:59 Unprepared for Catfishers, Scammers, and Stalkers
04:26 Addressing Stalkers and Introducing the Topic of Catfishers and Scammers
09:21 The Impact of Catfishers and Scammers
11:36 Impersonation and Theft
15:22 The Tactics of Catfishers and Scammers
20:57 Issues with TikTok and Facebook
24:29 Social Media's Benefit from Scammers
27:01 Social Media Bias Against Adult Entertainers
27:45 The Challenges with Facebook
33:27 Scammers and Fake Accounts on Social Media
41:06 Lack of Protection from Social Media Companies
48:32 Collaboration Considerations
53:49 Unauthorized Use of Content and Ads
54:15 Lack of Attention from Media and Social Media Companies
55:32 The Roller Coaster of Fame
58:01 Taking Advantage of Success
59:27 Empathy for Celebrities
01:03:37 Impersonation and AI Technology
01:04:16 Advice for Fans and Content Creators
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